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In making a decision to move or to do or not do something you do not have to exercise a sudden change just because things aren’t going well. Secondly, If things are going just fine, does not mean you have to stay. Have I confused you yet? Basically, what you decide to do depends on your goal and the plans that you have for accomplishing that goal.
For example, you just moved into the neighborhood of your dreams. The coffee shop is within minutes from where you live, The Gym is close by, not to mention the closeness to transportation and freeways. However your little oasis has been interrupted by some very loud neighbors and a stray dog who keeps toppling over your trash. The first thing to ask yourself is this enough for you to pack up and leave or could you just find other solutions?
Now lets change the order of this scenario, you live in the neighborhood of your dreams, and besides a few tiny annoyances ( nothing in life is perfect) you get a job offer that is three times what you are making, and the benefits package is just what you needed for your growing family. The first thing that you may ask yourself is moving going to be more rewarding than the amenities that you are now experiencing?
It is wise to have a life script or plan, and when making a choice. Second of all, refer back to your plan to see if this choice will support your plans or bring your further away from them.
B. L. Aki
